My birthday week has been AMAZING! Yes, I celebrate a WEEK! Everyone should! Every year on my birthday I create a visions board. This year was very special because it was a milestone birthday…..THE BIG 4-0!
For the past 3 years, I have created a vision board to focus on what I want to bring into my life for that coming year. This year I thought I would hold a workshop to have others join me in creating a beautiful year.
Last year’s vision was all about money mindset, working on creating a business and self-care. This year is all about launching the business, education, buying a home, and homesteading! Lots of delicious thing coming in 2017!
I only had one brief moment of panic thinking about turning 40, but then I realized, ” I’ve got this!”
My sweet love, had a surprise birthday party for me, with some of the most special people in my life. He stalked everyone on my Facebook page and asked them to send in videos to wish me a happy birthday. It was so special! My former boss, former coworkers, friends, family, even a childhood rockstar crush (who is still very much crush today) all sent beautiful messages. It made me feel so special.
My Rockstar Crush: PJ Farely,
Then: in his Trixter Days
Meeting PJ in 2010:
….and in 2012
This week I had the opportunity to spend time on 3 different occasions, with one of my favorite people on the planet. On our last encounter we attended a fundraiser called HerMojo to support Planned Parenthood. It was a glorious evening spent dancing with all women, who were free to move their bodies, own their space and be unapologetically who they are…. beautiful, luscious, powerful creation of feminine energy. It was a humbling and empowering experience to be apart of. There is nothing more powerful than the juicy energy of the feminine divine!
Turning 40 has brought a whole new level to my life.
So what have I learned in my Forty Years of being on this earthly plane?
I no longer care what people think of me.
I am ok with saying “No” and not feeling guilty.
BOUNDARIES ARE HEALTHY!!!!!
I do what it is that makes ME happy, and not worrying about pleasing others. Of course I still serve others with compassion and kindness, but only in ways that are aligned with my values.
I completely love myself for who I am. The laugh lines, stomach pooch, extra weight, white hairs, and stretch marks are all reminders of what a beautiful life I have cultivated. Even in those though times, I learn many valuable lessons, and I am always supported by exceptional human beings.
I no longer sweat the small stuff.
I only spend time with people who inspire me and I love being around.
Housework is a constant battle (especially with a 3-year-old), it will wait for you. Get out and enjoy life!
Dancing is the yoga for your soul!
That mediation Sh*T works!! You just have to do it! 🙂
Self-care should always be a priority!
Happiness is a choice.
No other person can validate who I am and what I am worth. I am FORTY, FEARLESS and FIERCE!